The 9 Leadership Tests Nobody Escapes How many would you pass? Years ago, I asked an executive a simple question during a coaching session. “What leadership book has influenced you the most recently?” Without hesitation, he rattled off several impressive titles. Then I asked a second question. “Good. Now tell me specifically what you changed as a result of reading …
Why Appreciation Is the Most Underrated Leadership Skill
Why Appreciation Is the Most Underrated Leadership Skill Comedian Rodney Dangerfield used to joke that he “got no respect.” He said it was so bad his wife wouldn’t even let him be in their wedding photos. Now that’s bad. But it’s nothing new. Over a century ago, psychologist William James wrote, “The deepest craving in human nature is to be …
The Secret to Strong Relationships (Hint: It’s Not Luck)
The Secret to Strong Relationships (Hint: It’s Not Luck) As a child, I remember wanting things other people had—families that took fancier vacations, looked happier, and relationships that seemed easier. When I voiced that envy, I’d hear the familiar reply: “The grass just looks greener on the other side.” Now that I’m older (and hopefully wiser), I know two things. …
How To Stay Productive When You’re Surrounded By Difficult People
How To Stay Productive When You’re Surrounded By Difficult People People haven’t changed much since ancient times. They can still be rude, insensitive, selfish, and—let’s be honest—difficult… at least some of the time. And odds are, one of those difficult people sits a few desks away from you… or shows up regularly in your inbox… or joins your Zoom calls …