“It is very important to understand that emotional intelligence is not the opposite of intelligence. It is not the triumph of heart over head. It is the unique intersection of both.” David Caruso, author Fashions change. What was “in style” a few years ago is probably “out of style” now. In fact, the differences in fashion and style can be …
Passing Judgment Is Easy, But Truly Understanding Is Much More Difficult
Exercise caution in judgment but never in understanding. For years I taught an intensive five-day, fifty-hour course in “Interpersonal Communication.” It would start at 2:00 p.m. on Wednesday and go until midnight, Wednesday through Sunday. It was a powerful course, and I would put my whole heart and soul into the course, doing everything I could to help the participants …
Love Is a Verb, Not a Feeling
If the grass seems greener across the street, maybe they’re using better fertilizer. As a child, I remember wanting some things that other people had. I wanted certain things to be in my family or in my relationships. And I remember being told that the grass just seemed greener on the other side. It really wasn’t. Well now I’m an …
The Psychological Law Of Attraction
If you’re a grouch, you’ll be amazed at how many grouches you meet in this world. Did you ever notice that on the days you’re the crabbiest, your customers are the most difficult? And did you ever notice that on the days you’re feeling positive, most people are fairly cooperative? Of course you have. It’s called the “Psychological Law of …